Have you noticed your inner perfectionist showing up a little more lately with stronger judgements, reactions, and more worry (especially at night)? It’s tough being a human, especially when living through a two-year war on COVID-19. A lot of us are feeling it these days. There is a rise in anxiety and depression in populations around our Globe. Perfectionism can be a major contributor to unhealth and isolation. We just expect a lot from ourselves and others. And this may be a time for more compassion and empathy. Relationship research is showing couples feeling closer than ever or coming apart. … Read the restRead More
Do You Love Me?
So my husband & I are vacationing in Maui and I just have to share a little story of magic, mojo and beached serendipity… with a little twist at the end. I think it may help illuminate the value of having conversations that keep you feeling connected and in love.
It all started last night…or maybe 17 years ago when my husband Joe proposed to me on this special Island. 15 years of marriage later… two pandemic years of no travel… and all the realities of life, this has been a holiday well in the … Read the restRead More
Whether you are in a relationship or you are a ‘solovalenteur’, how you feel today may be all up to YOU! Let’s talk about feeling SEXY.
S enses can be experienced in 21 ways
E xotic … shake, dance and be an original self
X terminate negativity
Y es and Y es
Senses can be experienced in 21 ways in our miraculous bodies. What you may not know, is that we actually have more than just our five commonly understood senses: sight, sound, smell, touch, and taste to play with.
We actually know from … Read the restRead More
How do you keep your feelings of vibrancy alive in your relationship? I know I know…it’s for us to do our own personal emotional work and be accountable to whatever feelings we want to experience in relationship with others. I know I know… we can’t be thinking if only our partner would …. Or why doesn’t he or she….? Can you relate? We all can some of the time. But read on…
When we shift into a perspective of Whole Hearted Acceptance, (yes he’s a little messy and there’s his creative brain) or (yes she’s a little emotional … Read the restRead More